Let’s not fight.
Not everything needs a reply. LetsNotFight is a paid participation experiment that helps people interrupt conflict in real time.
This is a paid participation experience. Not a donation.
What just happened
You were about to react. Instead, you paused. This isn’t about being right — it’s about stopping the damage early.
Buy a pause
Standard purchase (Stripe in the live version).
Standard purchase (Stripe in the live version).
Choose the moment
Name where you almost escalated.
Name where you almost escalated.
Write what you didn’t send
Reaction → reflection, in one sentence.
Reaction → reflection, in one sentence.
Not a nonprofit. LetsNotFight is a for-profit participation experience. Payments are not donations and are not tax-deductible.
Choose the fight you didn’t have
Pick one. No explanations needed.
Words I didn’t send
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What you’re paying for
This is a product: you pay to take part. The platform stays lean, quiet, and available when you’re about to escalate.
Pause tools
Short prompts and micro-scripts for de-escalation.
Short prompts and micro-scripts for de-escalation.
Participation counters
A live measure of restraint, not opinions.
A live measure of restraint, not opinions.
Anonymous wall (optional)
A place for words you didn’t send — no likes, no replies.
A place for words you didn’t send — no likes, no replies.
Ongoing experiments
We iterate on what reduces everyday conflict.
We iterate on what reduces everyday conflict.
What we didn’t say
No likes. No replies. No arguments. Just the heat that didn’t spread.
“I was right. I stayed quiet.”
— anonymous · online“I wanted to win. I chose restraint.”
— anonymous · family“I didn’t yell back.”
— anonymous · childIf you submit with “Share anonymously,” your sentence appears here (mock).